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WesternSwing · 10-10-2007, 04:19 PM

We know several couples who attend the parties and go to clubs, but never actually swap. Does it bother us? No. To each their own. When we are in vanilla setting with these couples we are just all great friends. But if we are in the mood to swap we don't spend a whole lot of time during the evening with the non-swap couples, but instead concentrate our attentions on those we know are potential playmates. We don't want to seem rude to the non-swap couples, but if we are there to play and there is no chance of that happening with them, then we go where there is opportunity.

Mr. WS

10-10-2007, 04:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Question: Just hangin' out with other swingers We know several couples who attend the parties and go to clubs, but never actually swap. Does it bother us? No. To each their own. When we are in vanilla setting with these couples we are just all great friends. But if we are in the mood to swap we don't spend a whole lot of time during the evening with the non-swap couples, but instead concentrate our attentions on those we know are potential playmates. We don't want to seem rude to the non-swap couples, but if we are there to play and there is no chance of that happening with them, then we go where there is opportunity. Mr. WS
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