We started out this way too. You guys have only been in the life-style for three months, so you guys are probably still looking for a couple that you are both attracted to and feel comfortable with. Give your selves time and don't sweat not being very active right now. Believe me, in another three months or so after your in the life- style a little longer and find out the do's and dont's, you guys will feel more comfortable and become more open to others.
