[good times]

This is an interesting question because it touches on something we have run into lately.

The problem is that our local clubs have been overrun in the last year or so by what we call non-swingers, those are people who like the sexually charged atmosphere of the swingers club, but have no interest in playing with anyone else. The result of this is that the swingers who like to play with others have now stopped attending the clubs regularly.

So to answer your question, while we don't hold it against anyone personally and have even made some good friends with these people that are non-swingers, I have to admit that, yes, it is becoming very discouraging to us. Even to the point that we will meet someone and while smiling on the outside, be thinking, "oh no, not another one" on the inside. We have even gone so far as starting discussions with some of our swinger friends about starting a monthly party with the only requirement being, that you actually must agree to play with others to be invited. The fact is, that due to this problem the local swingers clubs do not have very many actual swingers that attend any more. We don't expect to play every time we go to a club, but when we pay our money we do expect to find other like minded couples there that we might have the possibility to play with. Recently, more often than not, that hasn't been the case, and for an evening out for non-swinging entertainment, a swingers club is usually not a very good value.