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socolais · 10-10-2007, 12:25 PM

A very interesting question!! I've silently wondered how far we're taxing other people's tolerance - sometimes it's difficult to know until the straw breaks the camel's back. The vibes I get from other folks leads me to believe as long as we're upfront with our preferences and remain reasonably calm with the events (don't freak out), any friendship that develops is based on who we are and not what we'll do in bed. Some folks just want to have a good time and when the sex happens, that's cool too.

I guess the secret is communication.

10-10-2007, 12:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: Question: Just hangin' out with other swingers A very interesting question!! I've silently wondered how far we're taxing other people's tolerance - sometimes it's difficult to know until the straw breaks the camel's back. The vibes I get from other folks leads me to believe as long as we're upfront with our preferences and remain reasonably calm with the events (don't freak out), any friendship that develops is based on who we are and not what we'll do in bed. Some folks just want to have a good time and when the sex happens, that's cool too. I guess the secret is communication.
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