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Trace Ekies · 10-08-2007, 07:27 AM

We have two couples we have been "close" to several times and make it a point to go to parties together. The six of us are exhibitionists so it doesn't take long for some sort of sex act to begin. We have been invited to parties just for our "starting" abilities.

At the open parties we throw there is a 10:00 pm rule. This rule states that there must be at least some nudity by 10:00 pm. Breasts for women and down to shorts for the guys. Naturally we prefer to be naked.

In a couple/couple situation we read the signs and follow. In most cases we start and the other couple follows and then it's a group thing. We are very careful in these situations...it seems everyone is not as comfortable having sex in front of others as we are.

We agree with the sex dice post as well. We had a set at one of our parties and some interesting things happened in very short order.

Haven't tried the massage idea, but have made a mental note and will give it a whirl soon.

At our favorite on-premise club the exhibitionist thing takes over and we "start". We spent some time on the dance floor in various states of un-dress and ultimately got to know a couple better that we had met previously and then "started" with them...or maybe they "started" with us...either way we all "finished" in the end.

In the end, nudity seems to be the common denominator. Someone needs to get naked. It seems most are more comfortable when the women start but I have been known to be the starter. In any case, someone gets naked and others follow suit.

Get naked and have fun!

10-08-2007, 07:27 AM	#20 (permalink)
Trace Ekies Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 489 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:swyngcpl	Re: How do you start things at a house party? We have two couples we have been "close" to several times and make it a point to go to parties together. The six of us are exhibitionists so it doesn't take long for some sort of sex act to begin. We have been invited to parties just for our "starting" abilities. At the open parties we throw there is a 10:00 pm rule. This rule states that there must be at least some nudity by 10:00 pm. Breasts for women and down to shorts for the guys. Naturally we prefer to be naked. In a couple/couple situation we read the signs and follow. In most cases we start and the other couple follows and then it's a group thing. We are very careful in these situations...it seems everyone is not as comfortable having sex in front of others as we are. We agree with the sex dice post as well. We had a set at one of our parties and some interesting things happened in very short order. Haven't tried the massage idea, but have made a mental note and will give it a whirl soon. At our favorite on-premise club the exhibitionist thing takes over and we "start". We spent some time on the dance floor in various states of un-dress and ultimately got to know a couple better that we had met previously and then "started" with them...or maybe they "started" with us...either way we all "finished" in the end. In the end, nudity seems to be the common denominator. Someone needs to get naked. It seems most are more comfortable when the women start but I have been known to be the starter. In any case, someone gets naked and others follow suit. Get naked and have fun!