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Originally Posted by GoNatural  Would you consider only watching you wife with others? I'm not propositioning you for me, but I'm curious, because that is what I would enjoy most.
I'm also the type of guy that really gets deep into thought. While I havn't had a to catch some of my attention, I've still lost my erection while with another man's wife due to "thinking". The condoms also affected my erection in some of the meetings, depending on how long it had been since I had bare sex.
You are turned on by seeing a woman in "bliss". This is probably a major factor in you arousal, and is a learned process. Not seeing it in other women is therefore insuficient enough to keep you aroused. |
GoNatural,
You make a good point about that being a major factor in my arousal--that probably has as much to do with it as the condoms. And I've had over 20 years of that learning process, so I don't know that it's going to change quickly. It's not really a distraction issue--I'm always focused on the woman I'm with (as much as one can be with four people in one room). I don't think getting together with a couple and just watching would work out that well, and I don't really want to be a mere voyeur. Which is why the MFM is sounding better to me all the time. I know I'll be with a woman that is responsive and with whom I know I'm doing something for.
Thanks for the input.