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Originally Posted by ShellyM  I'm honestly not trying to discourage you, just being honest and letting you know that you aren't the only one feeling what you are feeling. I don't know what to tell you. MFMs are fun, perhaps they will allow you to relax and move from there. Some couples play in separate rooms, but this is usually if a person cannot relax around their own spouse. I know that you are frustrated, and I think that time will help you out. I only wish you the best.
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Shelly,
I do appreciate your input and know that you're not trying to be discouraging. I judge how good sex is by the degree to which the woman is enjoying herself. If she's not obviously really getting off, it's just not good for me, and I don't feel it's fair to her to be in such a situation. Maybe that's the wrong way to look at it, but that's the way I see things. If the female half of us is up for it, I think we'll try some MFM. Thanks again for all the input.