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Old 10-07-2007, 04:17 PM   #7 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Default Re: I Just Can't Do This Anymore

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Originally Posted by incognito View Post
I know that what my wife and I have will never be replicated, and that's the way I want it. But to see that men can have a large portion of what I have with my wife, yet I'm unable to have anything NEAR that with their wife is where the frustration is.
...and knowing the other woman is thinking this makes things that much worse, no matter how gracious she is.
I'm honestly not trying to discourage you, just being honest and letting you know that you aren't the only one feeling what you are feeling. I don't know what to tell you. MFMs are fun, perhaps they will allow you to relax and move from there. Some couples play in separate rooms, but this is usually if a person cannot relax around their own spouse. I know that you are frustrated, and I think that time will help you out. I only wish you the best.
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