Thanks for the replies everyone.
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Originally Posted by TNT  If the women you have been with are not as involved, orgasmic, whatever as your wife then is it really your problem? If you have done the best you can and are at a total loss as to what "does it" for these women then it falls to them to speak up and let you know what they want. |
This has been a problem. When I ask if she likes this or that, the answer has always been some flavor of "it's all good". While I can appreciate that everyone's responsible for their own orgasm, I just can't take not being able to visibly satisfy a woman beyond "Yeah, that was nice."
We have considered MFM, in fact I've been encouraging my wife to do this. She's open to it, but still a little leary. I told her today that I think I'm done with couples and should try MFM.
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Originally Posted by ShellyM You will NEVER EVER EVER have the kind of sex with another woman like you will with your wife, who is your soul mate, life partner, best friend.....NEVER. So you HAVE to get that expectation out of your head, or you will never be satisfied. |
I know that what my wife and I have will never be replicated, and that's the way I want it. But to see that men can have a large portion of what I have with my wife, yet I'm unable to have anything NEAR that with their wife is where the frustration is.
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Originally Posted by ShellyM I feel your frustration in regards to looking over and seeing your wife pleasured and not feeling the same way..only on the opposite end. |
...and knowing the other woman is thinking this makes things that much worse, no matter how gracious she is.