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Originally Posted by incognito  Do I have the only orgasmic woman on the planet? |
No, you don't
There's a saying that goes something like...We're all responsible for our own orgasms.
If the women you have been with are not as involved, orgasmic, whatever as your wife then is it really your problem? If you have done the best you can and are at a total loss as to what "does it" for these women then it falls to them to speak up and let you know what they want.
While discussing your post, Ted said that he understands where you are coming from...he's been in your position. He said for him, he looks at it as their styles (his and the other woman's) just don't click.
Since you said that you enjoy watching your wife being pleasured, have you considered maybe taking a break from couples and having a MFM threesome? The dynamics of a threesome are different than a foursome and it might let you relax and take the pressure off of you to please another woman, especially since the woman you'll be with, you know you can please.
Also, you might want to spend a bit more time getting to know the other couple before getting naked. During conversation and interaction you should be able to get a better guess as to whether or not the woman will be more of a "Don't worry about me, I'm going to get mine so you just relax and enjoy the ride" type of lady or a "I'm going to lay here and see what you've got dude" type of lady.
Teresa