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nubianzlust · 10-07-2007, 01:41 PM

We as a couple love to collect condoms and it may be the particular condom that you are using. We've tried using the condoms that have 10% benzocane but after awhile I cannot feel anything so whatever the reason may be that you lose your erection after a few minutes, it may be the condom you are using. You may want to experiment using different kinds. I have a few favorites that the wife and I love to use one in particular is polyurethane, I have trojan supra and I believe there is one made by lifestyles also but I have yet to find them here in my city.

The best thing is to order a condom sampler from condommania or condomdepot who send out samplers for a price of course and you may want ot try them out out on your wife to see what her vagina feels as very pleasurable so you can have an idea of what other women may like. Also my wife and I dont consider ourselves swingers since she only wants us to get with other women but my advice is to try different condoms with your wife and she can pick which one did the job and those that didnt make a difference just add them to the dont buy again list. And the women that you plan on having adult fun with, I feel it is best to get to know them first i.e. what do they like during sex as far as oral and when being penetrated because some women like their nipples pinched hard in order for them to cum, some women like to be penetrated at an angle to rub their g-spots into orgasm, every woman has a different preference as to what makes them cum and those that dont know what actually makes them cum well uh, its time to experiment and find out by taking your time by giving oral and whatever makes her jump or give a specific moan then thats what you keep doing(it dont hurt to tease her when you find that spot) also during penetration, move your penis around and rub deeply against her sugarwalls because it may be uncomfortable for some women and for other women it may cause them to explode. It's all about experimenting by usage of different types of condoms(textured condoms depending on studded or ribbed or a combination of both ie durex performax or pleasuremax). Conversation to see what the potential likes done to them. And for those who havent a clue as to what can make them cum, its time to use them as a guinea pig and found what gets their motor running.

Say for instance you are in a 3sum with your wife, the other woman is performing oral on your wife and she is open for you, get down between her legs and get to licking and read her body language because I for one dont go straight to the clit, I go for the lips and hole and lick and suck then after a few minutes then I make my way to the clit and lick on her clit and once you feel that her clit has swollen and is easier to get to with your lips then you gently suck on it and SHE will tell you whether or not to suck harder or softer, when it comes to that, most women are directors when they are receiving some head.

10-07-2007, 01:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
nubianzlust Registered Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Bossier City, LA Status: couple	Re: I Just Can't Do This Anymore We as a couple love to collect condoms and it may be the particular condom that you are using. We've tried using the condoms that have 10% benzocane but after awhile I cannot feel anything so whatever the reason may be that you lose your erection after a few minutes, it may be the condom you are using. You may want to experiment using different kinds. I have a few favorites that the wife and I love to use one in particular is polyurethane, I have trojan supra and I believe there is one made by lifestyles also but I have yet to find them here in my city. The best thing is to order a condom sampler from condommania or condomdepot who send out samplers for a price of course and you may want ot try them out out on your wife to see what her vagina feels as very pleasurable so you can have an idea of what other women may like. Also my wife and I dont consider ourselves swingers since she only wants us to get with other women but my advice is to try different condoms with your wife and she can pick which one did the job and those that didnt make a difference just add them to the dont buy again list. And the women that you plan on having adult fun with, I feel it is best to get to know them first i.e. what do they like during sex as far as oral and when being penetrated because some women like their nipples pinched hard in order for them to cum, some women like to be penetrated at an angle to rub their g-spots into orgasm, every woman has a different preference as to what makes them cum and those that dont know what actually makes them cum well uh, its time to experiment and find out by taking your time by giving oral and whatever makes her jump or give a specific moan then thats what you keep doing(it dont hurt to tease her when you find that spot) also during penetration, move your penis around and rub deeply against her sugarwalls because it may be uncomfortable for some women and for other women it may cause them to explode. It's all about experimenting by usage of different types of condoms(textured condoms depending on studded or ribbed or a combination of both ie durex performax or pleasuremax). Conversation to see what the potential likes done to them. And for those who havent a clue as to what can make them cum, its time to use them as a guinea pig and found what gets their motor running. Say for instance you are in a 3sum with your wife, the other woman is performing oral on your wife and she is open for you, get down between her legs and get to licking and read her body language because I for one dont go straight to the clit, I go for the lips and hole and lick and suck then after a few minutes then I make my way to the clit and lick on her clit and once you feel that her clit has swollen and is easier to get to with your lips then you gently suck on it and SHE will tell you whether or not to suck harder or softer, when it comes to that, most women are directors when they are receiving some head.