 Re: The other male and his secret agenda
I can see both sides of this. On one side I agree with couplewanting that you may be making a bit too much of this.
on the other side, I do get your point and agree that most likely his goal was to get her to squirt. That said, i don't know that he was deliberately trying to leave you out of it. I think that probably since you had all talked about it before hand he may have assumed it was ok and that you wanted it to happen and he may have just not THOUGHT about the idea of trying to teach you how to make it happen rather than just making it happen.
It might just be that they really like you guys and were trying to impress you by making your wife squirt, not even thinking that this might "offend" you in any way.
If anything I would think yo would have been annoyed earlier on that the was going further with your wife than you were able to go with his. In his way of thinking if you hadn't been bothered earlier in the night then why be bothered now?
I think most likely you just feel left out and rightfully so. But at this point there is nothing you can do except move on. You can either choose to stay mad at them and not see them again. or you can let them know that you felt left out and that you would like to know how to make your wife squirt and ask them to teach you how. Remember, as you said, this lifestyle is about communication.
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