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Originally Posted by Tia Vampire so the men started to want to have sex without condoms. No not for us  |
I must totally agree and understand. Up until this relationship began, my wife and I even debated on whether to use condoms during oral play.
The couple we are with, we have been close friends with for almost 10 years. We introduced them to the lifestyle and neither they nor us have ever played with any other couples.
Also, we have changed our original goal of more couples. We both realize that if were not for these long time friends, (friends before sex at that) we would not have this type of relationship with additional partners. This is one of those things where we got exactly what we wanted in a couple to play with, but it was only because of who the couple was / is. It would be very hard to meet new people and form a bond that could sustain such a relationship. Really, when you think about it; the best romantic relationships are where people start out as friends. Let the friendship develop, then maybe get physical, if that is mutually desired. As married adults, I think it would be difficult to put aside the sex in favor of building a friendship first.