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J & K · 03-17-2003, 07:17 AM

OK---the young girls seem to like older men (not too old) and the older men like younger women (not too young).

We are in our late 30's and look at the younger cpls in the clubs. They tend to hang with other young folks and don't bat an eye to the older cpls. So it is like a "click" to which group folks tend to flock to.

I think younger cpls could learn more from the older cpls---not so much as in sex, but more on an educated level of the lifestyle. Like "mentors" I could say. Also, cpls in their 20's may know about sex, but do they know about maturity in sex? Those of us in our late 30's and beyond seem to know what we like and also how to please another person on a mental level. We tend not to play head games so much, but that will vary from cpl-to-cpl.

There are a lot of us in our late 30's and mid 40's that look pretty hot still. I think a lot of it depends on how well you take care of yourself for the younger cpls to look at us older cpls. I have seen guys who are 35 yrs old and look like 45 because their hair is greying. Use some dye will help. Sun damage is a big killer for older cpls looking young.

So those young cpls that look at us older cpls as "old folks"----well---they will be here someday too. We are only as young as we feel. To bad the body ages faster than the mind---LOL.

"J"

03-17-2003, 07:17 AM	#5 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 192 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	OK---the young girls seem to like older men (not too old) and the older men like younger women (not too young). We are in our late 30's and look at the younger cpls in the clubs. They tend to hang with other young folks and don't bat an eye to the older cpls. So it is like a "click" to which group folks tend to flock to. I think younger cpls could learn more from the older cpls---not so much as in sex, but more on an educated level of the lifestyle. Like "mentors" I could say. Also, cpls in their 20's may know about sex, but do they know about maturity in sex? Those of us in our late 30's and beyond seem to know what we like and also how to please another person on a mental level. We tend not to play head games so much, but that will vary from cpl-to-cpl. There are a lot of us in our late 30's and mid 40's that look pretty hot still. I think a lot of it depends on how well you take care of yourself for the younger cpls to look at us older cpls. I have seen guys who are 35 yrs old and look like 45 because their hair is greying. Use some dye will help. Sun damage is a big killer for older cpls looking young. So those young cpls that look at us older cpls as "old folks"----well---they will be here someday too. We are only as young as we feel. To bad the body ages faster than the mind---LOL. "J"