The first time I attended a swinging club I was in my mid twenties.
We hooked up with a tremendous looking couple. After the fact they told us they had TEENAGE kids! I was shocked. We had two at the time and they were 5 and 2.
I just couldn't get over the fact the these people we had sex with could have been old enough to have teenage kids.
Well, now the one that wasn't born then is bout to turn 18...LOL.
I have gone from looking at older swingers as "what the fuck are they here for", to "hey its a lifestyle".
As I progress into my mature years, I will fondly remember each and every one of the friends I and we made.
Remember that the young swingers are the future of the community.
The music and the different ways they handle themselves is not to be frowned upon but to be embraced.
The swinging community is like all others. The old ones should be respected and the young ones should be allowed to change things.
As we suddenly realize 20 years slipped by then it dawns on us.
I encourage younger couples to expore the lifestyle. I have seen many a marraige saved by turning to swinging.
So many young couples feel trapped by the awful thought of having to have sex with just this gal/guy.
The 7 year itch is scratched by involving the two of you if you can handle it.
If you can't handle it then thats OK, but maybe it is the answer to the questions you were afraid to ask.
If you have marital problems swinging will make them worse though.
Only stable couples should even consider swinging.
OH I went on and on again.
John.
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