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sepacouple · 09-26-2007, 04:17 AM

My wife and I are in our mid-forties, have a great relationship, and have had a couple of soft-swing type activities in the last few years. I have realized that in the last couple of years that I really enjoy looking at women, especially good looking ones

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I know, I know what guy does'nt. Seriously, what I mean is that I just enjoy how a women looks (of any age), whether it is just on the street or at the nude beach, or nude pictures especially if she is confident and comfortable with her looks. But, thinking back 15 or 20 years ago it was more like WOW, look at those tits, look at that cleavege, look at that tight ass in those tight fitting jeans, etc.

Part of me thinks that I have just matured and appreciate women for their beauty and part of me wonders if it is just what the "morality types" say, that since I did not reserve the "specialness" of a naked woman for only my wife, I no longer find a naked woman "special" (BTW- I still love watching my wife get undressed).

Does any else have or had this conflict or is it just me?

09-26-2007, 04:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
sepacouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 108 Location: southeastern PA Status: couple	getting more "mature" or is it just not "special" anymore? My wife and I are in our mid-forties, have a great relationship, and have had a couple of soft-swing type activities in the last few years. I have realized that in the last couple of years that I really enjoy looking at women, especially good looking ones . I know, I know what guy does'nt. Seriously, what I mean is that I just enjoy how a women looks (of any age), whether it is just on the street or at the nude beach, or nude pictures especially if she is confident and comfortable with her looks. But, thinking back 15 or 20 years ago it was more like WOW, look at those tits, look at that cleavege, look at that tight ass in those tight fitting jeans, etc. Part of me thinks that I have just matured and appreciate women for their beauty and part of me wonders if it is just what the "morality types" say, that since I did not reserve the "specialness" of a naked woman for only my wife, I no longer find a naked woman "special" (BTW- I still love watching my wife get undressed). Does any else have or had this conflict or is it just me?