[TheDeal]

When we got into this a year ago; our feeling was to try and meet a couple to form a tight friendship. We wanted to make the play exclusive for both physical and emotional safety. Up until recently however, we had all but dropped the exclusive part as for most "swingers" it's not about more people all at once, but more and different partners as you go.

Even when our long time friends found out what we had been investigating and then were interested in the same things; we still did not think of playing with them. I guess it's a huge risk we are all taking by playing together when we have been so very close for so long. I worry if it were to ever end if we would all still be friends. Ya know, like in the vanilla world; when you are sleeping with someone can you really ever go backwards?

I will say however, right now it's unbelievable!!! I could only imagen how much fun and how comfortable we all are. The whole sexual part seems so natural that we are all shocked at how normal it all feels. From the lack of any jealousy to the ability to crack jokes while in play; it's just like we have been together doing it for years.