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MtnSwing · 09-13-2007, 02:06 PM

Wow great thread. Newbie here. We have been to a club once and we're terrified before we went inside. The people were fabulous and we made several potential hookups there. We've never even been naked in front of another couple, but we are planning some naughty hiking this weekend with a couple we met that first night. We're also returning to the club with the same couple again.

The club atmosphere has given us the confidence to really pursue this. We realized that we're not deviants and that there are lots and lots of people like us. We had a blast chatting with other couples. We went up to the play room but didn't stay long. It was cool to see what goes on but we weren't ready for that yet. This time, my wife is going with a much more open and flirtatious attitude. The fear is gone and been replaced by anticipation. I'm sure many of you remember this feeling.

Thanks for the advice. We'll definitely try to learn from all of your experience. We've learned to go in with no expectations but to be ready to act if the feeling is right.

Worst case scenario, we've had more sex since we visited that club than we have had in years - something definitely seems to be working.

09-13-2007, 02:06 PM	#53 (permalink)
MtnSwing Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Alberta, Canada Status: Couple	Re: Basic newbie swinging mistakes. Wow great thread. Newbie here. We have been to a club once and we're terrified before we went inside. The people were fabulous and we made several potential hookups there. We've never even been naked in front of another couple, but we are planning some naughty hiking this weekend with a couple we met that first night. We're also returning to the club with the same couple again. The club atmosphere has given us the confidence to really pursue this. We realized that we're not deviants and that there are lots and lots of people like us. We had a blast chatting with other couples. We went up to the play room but didn't stay long. It was cool to see what goes on but we weren't ready for that yet. This time, my wife is going with a much more open and flirtatious attitude. The fear is gone and been replaced by anticipation. I'm sure many of you remember this feeling. Thanks for the advice. We'll definitely try to learn from all of your experience. We've learned to go in with no expectations but to be ready to act if the feeling is right. Worst case scenario, we've had more sex since we visited that club than we have had in years - something definitely seems to be working.