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Old 09-08-2007, 11:01 AM   #8 (permalink)
Cpl2share
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 344
Location: Way up north.
Status: Couple

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Default Re: body image issues

Mrs. Cpl was in the same situation as you. Throw in the stretch marks from two very large children, and severe scarring from surgery, and she barely let ME see her nekkid. We went to our first full foray into the lifestyle and her position was that she would keep her clothes on until the lights went out. All of the other women (4 couples total) were slimmer than her, but here is the clincher: She was the "most wanted" woman there. We have since had other issues which prevent us from participating in the lifestyle (at least for now) but the short story is: NO ONE thought it was gross. She ended up wandering around completely nekkid and being very sought after by both men and women. We ended up leaving the party first, but most of the people at the party have since contacted us wanting to get back together for more play. Her self esteme did skyrocket after that (part of my motivation in the first place) and we continue to be a loving couple.
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