I agree with Tybee on this one (cause shes a genius, thats why
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OP, I don't know your wife, and can't stand in judgement of ANYONE. And I'm also not saying that she is doing anything maliciously. But its just not fair for her to get hers, and when you suggest at least couples (where she would still get hers, just in a different capacity) she says she won't because she doesnt know them. Now, I can understand being shy with new people....but in my opinion she needs to be making a little bit more of an effort in helping you to enjoy this lifestyle as well. I think perhaps you need to sit down with her and tell her exactly what you are feeling. Don't be mean at ALL, but please express how you are feeling. Shelly