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So you are saying as far as full swing goes, she will not do it with anybody else but this high school friend?
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Yes. She was interested in another single guy we met at a club but she never got comfy. We haven't played with anyone in several months and she told me she wanted to play with him and no one else. So singles are my only option.
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The great majority of couples want to both play. They won't want to meet a second time with a couple where the woman (your wife) will not play with the other husband, and is only there for the bi experience.
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These were couples like us. Guys watching or soft swap only. Let me add here she has no problem soft swapping with other guys. Only intercourse.
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When you say "he wasn't allowed", do you mean that your wife wasn't allowing him to play with her, or the other man's wife didn't allow him to play with other women?
Was this woman the only time you ever got to have intercourse with somebody else in a swinging setting?
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His wife did not allow him to do it so it was never an issue with my wife. Yes this is the only time I have been with another woman.
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Are couples now entirely off the radar, even for just soft swinging?
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I have not asked her that question. Our experiance with that lead both of us to loose interest because it was so time consuming and expensive. I belive she would if I asked but she has made it plain this week that she will not have intercourse with any guy besides him. I guess my choices are seek a single girl without her help. That will go over well talking to girls in a bar without my wife present.....Oh yes we can have sex you just have to meet my wife first...LOL....That would freak me out to....One thing I have learned in this is you have to know everything up front first. The second choice. Stop swinging.