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Originally Posted by mnbryant She also only wants to do him..couples has never been and option. |
So you are saying as far as full swing goes, she will not do it with
anybody else but this high school friend?
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Originally Posted by mnbryant we have meet some and soft swapped ,girl girl situations but that is all. Of the 4 or 5 couples we have met the ones we really liked never talked to us again. I have no idea why but that is why we stopped meeting people online. |
The great majority of couples want to both play. They won't want to meet a second time with a couple where the woman (your wife) will not play with the other husband, and is only there for the bi experience.
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Originally Posted by mnbryant I hard swapped once with a woman that was married and he wanted her to swap even though he wasn't allowed. |
When you say "he wasn't allowed", do you mean that your wife wasn't allowing him to play with her, or the other man's wife didn't allow him to play with other women?
Was this woman the only time you ever got to have intercourse with somebody else in a swinging setting?
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Originally Posted by mnbryant As far as the points thing I agreed to this knowing it could take a long time to find someone. In 3 years we have never found one single girl online and I will have to do it locally. |
Your experience with not finding a single female to play with in three years is expected....single females who want to play in this way are very rare.
If your wife was willing to play with others, you'd have a chance to have some "fair" play. Even if she was the kind that needed to take time to get to know a couple first, you'd still have better chances than you have now. As it stands at this time, it's not looking too good for you.
Are couples now entirely off the radar, even for just soft swinging?