This thread is awesome thank you!
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Originally Posted by bethncole This one shouldn't be on the list. Clubs are for experienced or advanced couples. Newbies are overwhelmed there and it can drive them away from the lifestyle all together. |
I have to disagree with this also, we started in the lifestyle by going to clubs (off-premise clubs) so we could meet others and talk to them in an atmosphere that was a pressure cooker of raw sex.
Everyone we met, those we approached and those that approached us, we told up front we were new to the scene and they understood and were patient with us. Helped us out and talked to us and "made friends".
If we had gone with internet or other types of ads to meet folks first I do not think we would be as happy as we are now with the choice we made when we decided to "broaden our horizons".
