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As newbies who visited a club recently I have to agree that they are not just for experienced swingers. It sure is better than going through the BS of the Internet sites.

At a club....
You are talking to real people in person.
The awkwardness of a private meet just isn't there.
You can figure out if there is an attraction right away.
The sexual vibes are already there.
You don't need to come up with some BS excuse as to why you don't click.
Chances are the people there are serious to begin with.
You don't have to play just because you are at a club. You can meet someone or a couple and set up a private play date with them at a later time.

You will find out before the night is over if you are up to all the nuances of swinging. Such as jealousy, nudity or playing in front of another person or people. If you have problems with any of that, you can just leave.
If you do, maybe you should reconsider what you are looking for. If you can't handle these things in a impersonal setting I would think it would be worse in a private setting where things are one on one.

It is a good way of testing the waters to see if you want to go further in the lifestyle.

Just my newbie opinions.