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Old 09-03-2007, 06:18 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Thanks fun4Ds and it seems a few of you appreciated my research enough to email me to come back and furnish a few additional resources to further back up my initial post. So for those of you who like I am are interested in education and not just sitting around contented with ignorance I gladly present the following. And oh I’d like to clear up that the five cities of the plains that got caught in the rain of fire did exist, it’s just the real names of two of them were forever lost to history when the Hebrews renamed them S’dom, (Burnt) and Gamor’rah,(A ruined heap) While certainly theological record shows as per those peoples worship of Ishtar and the men’s devout attempts at impregnating their wives and Ishtar’s temple prostitutes in her name proves the existence of a breeders lifestyle based on religious worship and done in exchange not only for pleasure but to obtain the blessings of their warrior goddess on their lands to ensure fertility and bountiful crops. While again for pictures of an archeological dig of what was likely S’dom see:
http://www.bibleplus.org/discoveries/sodomfound.htm


fetish
[féttish](plural fet•ish•es) or fet•ich [féttish] (plural fet•ich•es)
n
Object of obsession: an object, idea, or activity that somebody is irrationally obsessed with or attached to
Psychiatry object arousing sexual desire: something, for example, an inanimate object or nonsexual part of the body that arouses sexual excitement in some people
Popular Use
In popular culture, the term 'fetish' has gained a broader meaning, and can cover any unusual sexuality. For example a man who is only attracted to overweight women may be popularly described as having a fetish, even though he is not aroused by an inanimate object or specific body part. Similarly, 'fetish' is often used as a synonym for BDSM, whether or not it involves a fetish in the technical sense. This tendency has been parodied in a satirical article in The Onion, which explored a man's 'naked-lady fetish'.

Paraphilia
par•a•phil•i•a [pàrrə fíllee ə]
n
Need for unusual sexual stimulation: the need for an abnormal stimulus, for example, a sadistic or masochistic practice, in order to achieve sexual arousal or orgasm

Maieusiophilia is the name given to one form of Pregnancy Fetishism, the focus of this wiki. It specifically refers to an attraction to or arousal by others being or appearing pregnant, as opposed to Gravidophilia, a fetish for being pregnant. The word is derived from the Greek maia (Μαια) for midwife. Those who have 'Maieusiophilia' are known as Maieusiophiliacs, or more commonly Maieusiophiles. Maieusiophiles within the community are prodominantly male, but females have been known to bare the fetish, often being bisexual or lesbian. Unfortunately this has lead to a wide misconception that Gravidophiles are all lesbian.

Impregnation fetish
A paraphilia characterized by arousal or gratification from the possibility or risk of impregnation through unprotected vaginal sex. This term is a common name, as paraphilia is not actually a sexual fetish.

Given the root biological purpose of sex is procreation, the degree to which this fetish qualifies as a paraphilia is debatable. However those with an impregnation fetish may indulge in their fantasy through erotic stories, chat with like-minded persons or actually act out the fantasy with a partner. Role playing is often a large part of this sexual fetish, as many do not actually wish to have a child but rather are aroused by the possibility during intercourse. Responsibility for birth control in this case is usually accepted by the female, as condom use destroys the impregnation fantasy. However in the case Motel Breeding, breeding parties there is no such thing as before the fact use of contraception by either the male or female. So to some extent this may cross into:

Pregnancy fetishism or maiesiophilia. People who have a pure impregnation fetish are interested in conception only, and therefore have no interest in a woman who is already pregnant, as there is no possibility of impregnating her. However, a number of impregnation fetishists are aroused by pregnant women as well, and indulge in pregnant sex or pregnant sex fantasy as part of their gratification.

Now I’d like to ask if the breeder lifestyle or people with this obsession are non-existent as some of you here claim then why is there medical terminology and definitions for such things? Please answer me that if you will.

Onwards

Periods and Pregnancy Fetishism
From: http://tulsamoda.blogspot.com/2006/1...fetishism.html

(I don't get gory with the period, but I definitely discuss it, and its role in my pregnancy fetishism, as well as my own little take on why I'm a pregnancy fetishist.)
Apparently I'm not a typical preggo fetishist, at least according to wikipedia because I don't fall into any of their groups. However, at the end of the article there is this:
<Edited for space>

"Pregnancy fetishists may be attracted to their fetish as a way to achieve full enjoyment of feminine beauty, or as a way of controlling women and their procreative power. The prime goal of a pregnancy fetishist seems to be a strong sexual and/or emotional bond to his/her partner. This bond may be expressed through touching, kissing, holding and possibly a sexual encounter with the pregnant woman. If the belly isn't the main center of the fetish, some attention is given to the woman's sexuality of "having done it" as pregnancy comes from sexual activity." So again why some may indulge in breeder activities.


Why a Rape and Impregnation fetish?
by Christie052780© (Edited for space by Merric)
http://www.literotica.com/stories/sh...y.php?id=90746


I've been writing and posting stories on Literotica for over two years and I often get people asking me how I got to have such an obsession with non-consent and forced/coerced impregnation. I always refer people to the sanitized and romanticized version of my true first time story "Milestones"

I knew Richard was up to something when the room reservations were messed up. He never reserved more than one room in the first place and knew I was screwed if I didn't stay with him that night. Once we were in the room he swore we'd be fine sleeping together and promised me nothing would happen. I didn't bring any sexy nightie with me on the trip, just my sleep shirt. I changed in the bathroom and then went to bed while he used the bathroom next after turning off the lights. When he got into bed he was naked and I didn't know that until he cuddled up to me.

I felt him nudge me and I freaked and jumped out of the bed. He lied and said he always slept "in the raw" (it creeps me out writing that down!) and promised to leave me alone. Once again I trusted him.

We got into some kissing and I thought we'd be safe and then he pulled away from me for a second and put on a condom and said "just in case". I laughed and told him he'd wasted it. I let him get back into kissing me and he suddenly got on top of me and started pulling my panties off. We had a bit of a struggle and I never screamed. It never entered my mind that what was happening was really rape, to me it was just Richard being too excited. He grabbed my arms and put them over my head and held them with one arm as he took my panties the rest of the way off. I told him we couldn't do this and he kissed me and got on top of me. A few painful moments later I was no longer a virgin.

He fell asleep not long after that and I was awake most of the night crying. The morning came and he woke me up with a whisker-studded kiss and the most ferocious case of bad breath ever. It was gross and not at all romantic. I just lay there and he got on me again and tried to get it in me and it was dry and I was very sore and told him so. He worked on it and very painfully mounted me. It did get a little better after a few minutes but it was still awful sore. Then I realized I hadn't seen him put on a condom and I asked him if he had one on already and he said no. I told him he had to stop and he said he would, but he didn't. When I tried to push him off it just turned him on even more and I ended up with a load of baby juice in me. That morning was so fucked up for me. After we left the room he was 100% a gentleman again and we ended up having a strained but nice day. That night he actually asked me if I wanted to do it again and I said, "You do whatever you want." That was actually Christie-talk for "no" and I did not say it in a sexy way. When he took it for a 'yes' I didn't care and just went along since the real damage had already been done at that point.

Then we went home and things got worse and here I am seven-thousand miles from home because of it.

So here's the fetish: even though I detested Richard (and I still do) for what he did I got a perverse thrill wondering if I was pregnant from him and I fantasized about my rape and made it into something it really wasn't, but it helped me deal with it all. I DON'T want to be raped ever again, but I relive it over and over again in my dreams, fantasies, and stories. The stories have been therapeutic for me since they've been an outlet for me from my normal life and they've helped me work out my issues about all of this.

The guy I had after Richard was shocked by what a cockhound I was and he was more than happy to oblige my need to explore. It wasn't rape with him, but I'd imagine it was sometimes and I had my best orgasms when I did that.

So there you have it: I got twisted by being raped. I'm still fucked up but getting a grip on it all helps and it helps to write it all down, too. Now I will say that I am hopelessly stuck on non-consent and impregnation themes, but I do NOT want anyone to think any girl wants this to happen to her and I want anyone who is thinking about acting out this kind of fantasy to know that it is has real effects on the victims.

So you see as exampled in the above story for many women there can be underlying circumstances to why they’re addicted to a Paraphilia, Impregnation, maiesiophilia or Pregnancy fetish.

As a psychologist put it for me:
“In “gangbangs or motel breeding” by outwards appearances it might look as if the woman is at the utter disposal and absolute submission to varying numbers of men. But in the end it’s really her who holds the power. You see what it comes down to is those men are angling for her attentions.. So as it turns out the reason she may come to crave this is because of this very control and preeminence she finds herself possessing over these men. I mean imagine the woman participant with numerous hands and mouths on her body amounting to all the participating men dedicating their absolute attentions solely on her. Every orifice always filled by a man’s sexual member. A thing which inevitably becomes accompanied by endless orgasms all around none which can be done without her and her alone, so you see in the end it’s really her who’s in charge and controlling the situation. And that means power and power can become a very addicting thing.”

As it was I happened to catch an episode of the Maury Povich show. (Aired here in San Francisco on 6/24/2006 so again as in my opening post whether it went ignored by some of you or not I’m posting all available evidence and means of checking up on it as I possibly can) While anyway I think a young, fifteen year old girl I saw on the program summed what the doctor told me best when she confronted her mother about her sexual needs. To memory she told her mother. “I need sex fifteen times a day. I’ve thrown private parties at our home. And I love all those men and their attentions only on me and my sexy body. It’s something I just can’t do without. “ So you see as exampled in many cases for a woman it may well be the dawning addiction to this power she can wield over men that can suck her in. Because certainly as the doctor said power’s something that can become a very addicting and intoxicating thing. As to the young lady from her ventures she became infected with a still curable social disease once and likewise was impregnated once but lost the baby to a miscarriage. Yet she continued her addictions to unprotected intercourse with single and multiple men. On a happier note Maury brought in an ex-prostitute who also had been hooked on the same wielding of power the sex and gangbang addicted young girl was. And thanks to this woman’s experience. Then taking the young woman out for a time in New York she exposed the girl to the things she had to look forwards to as a prostitute. For this was something the fifteen year old girl had brusquely told her mother she was going to become no matter what. “ Yet once the young woman got a taste of her “dream” of unlimited promiscuity and spent time on the street with the older woman who’d already gone through it. Well it seems her eyes got opened real fast. You see the Maury show I saw was an update. And with her findings of what life on the streets was about and multitude of inherent dangers the young woman did a hundred percent turnaround. Then again became the dedicated, honor role student she’d been prior to her sex and gangbang addiction.” So yes though some people are attracted to “breeding parties” and the like for the sexually erotic thrill ege” for the women the power they can hold over men and for men the power they have of impregnating the women. Some have much more deep rooted physiological reasons for their participations. So again instead of just simply so much emotional condemnation or denial, put on your heads and engage your brains for a change. Stop playing the same stolid, unbending. unwilling to learn and/or become educated game the Vanilla world does and seek enlightenment as you did when you first departed that Vanilla world. I mean what some of you are doing now is much like talking to a friend about the latest movie”

Tom: Say you see that new “so and so” flick?
Bob: No not yet.
Tom: Well don’t, it’s gotta be crap.
Bob: Then you haven’t seen it yet?
Tom: Nope
Bob: Well then how do you know its crap Tom? You can’t tell that until you’ve seen it.

So what really burns my ass is people who sit around screaming “the world is flat” or it’s an “Urban Myth” without actually going out and finding out whether it is or not. Now again I provided plenty of dates from early in recorded history and urls and names of sites featuring breeding but if the few of you here still screaming “urban myth” are to lazy to do the research then tuff darts. And that’s because again breeder parties, since near the dawn of time and current day motel breeding and the like are factual. And there’s one really great thing about facts and that’s they aren’t dependent on individual belief to remain facts just as the recorded exampled of human history I provided shows. So until you’ve researched a subject and made some effort of understanding it like the movie you haven’t seen yet you really have no qualifications at all to deny its existence or criticize it. So if looking up a title such as say, “Heather’s Gangbang Girls” like I gave here in Google is too difficult for you, to make it easier I’ll post several impregnation Urls here. Now whether or not the Mods let them remain is up to them. If they don’t then there’s nothing I can do about it. So if you’re one of those people who’re too busy screaming “urban myth” to do the research on the subject then all it shows is you’re just someone who’s too set in their ways and contented to wallow in their ignorance and that’s all it shows.


From:
Female Orgasm - You Came, Therefore I Am [/I]
http://home.epix.net/~jlferri/orgfem.html

What is the goal of sex? For willing partners that care for each other, answers would include pleasure, comfort, love, relaxation, closeness, and tenderness. These and many others are partially correct, but if the list doesn't include procreation, it is grossly incomplete. The participants may be performing for other shorter term reasons, but ultimately (post Eden and the loss of immortality anyway~Merric) the goal of sex is to propagate the species.

"Although the biological link between love and babies seems clear enough, most of the literary rhapsodizing about love omits any association with reproduction. It's easy to understand why. The heat of passion seems to have little connection with diaper rash. Being on call twenty-four hours a day until a child leaves for college is hardly the stuff of love songs. Romance enables lovers to deceive themselves about the likely consequences of their overwhelming passion. And, like it or not, self-deception figures prominently in love."

So again until you’ve researched a subject and made some effort of understanding it you really have no intellectual qualifications at all to deny its existence or criticize it. So to help you along here then are bonafide impregnation sites. And if the Mods are willing to let them stand then the only catch is you actually have to go to them and do the research.

Impregnorium
http://impregnorium.net/.
I think the name says it all and I’d suggest reading the “true stories” section accredited with being submitted by actual members of the breeder’s lifestyle. In them for many I’ve found those involved are immensely happy with things and it doesn’t seem the resulting children when there are any get anything but unconditional love. Remember for the majority it isn’t actually getting pregnant that’s the kick but just the fantasy and risk of it. In any case I’ve done what I can so the rest is up to you.

Dark Cavern
http://darkcavern.com/maintour.php/11/24/A
See Barebacking at this site, and from their site:
BAREBACKING means unsafe sex, in this case wives taking it raw from their black lovers. The question isn't IF they're going to get knocked up, but when! These couples are VERY committed to the lifestyle!


In a few special cases you get to see the conception and then pix of the swollen bellies that result from this risky, obscene behavior.

Just one catch and that’s you have to become a paying member to see it. Nonetheless there it is just like “Heathers gangbang girls” so keep screaming “urban myth” all you like because again facts remain facts and aren’t dependent on your belief.

Heather’s Gangbang Girls.
http://www.heathersgangbanggirls.com/
http://www.heathersgangbanggirls.com/homepagess.htm Shows listing of girls impregnated just as I listed them in my initial post. But again you have to look. Either that or just sit on your butt in self delusion the breeding fetish is just an “urban myth” which again is fine by me, while in either case again I’m not saying I condone such practices nor that I partake in them. All I’m saying is like the Vikings, Amerigo Vaspuci or Christopher Columbus I’m not willing to just sit on my ass and scream “the world is flat” but instead am willing to go out and find out whether it is or not. So if you’re contented sitting on your rear end screaming “Urban Myth” without actually doing any looking into it then again that’s fine by me. Anyway my thanks to those of you who are interested in expanding your knowledge and urged me to provide more on this subject. While now I really do need a vacation from the swingers board for a long while so I can try and come to grips with how people can just sit back committed to a single belligerent belief without doing any looking into it at all, though nonetheless I still wish everyone here all the best.
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