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Old 08-29-2007, 01:21 PM   #4 (permalink)
dayhiker
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Default Re: Feeling guilty for not liking it more

Hi Anon,
Amazing the games our mind can play on us. Yet, each thing is so real. Indeed this is very real to you, so its hard to say if you can change it.
First, since your close and inlove with this couple, I'd encourage you to tell them the story.
How to deal with it, no do a and it is behind you. But since your mind has played this real game with you, there is a game you can play back on your mind I imagine. Once you have told the other couple they probably can help you with the situation. Basically I think you got to come to see his penis as his. Now you see his penis as your father's. So play games, sexy, not sexual, that will help you see this guy's penis as his.

Hope the idea helps!
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