Re: performance anxiety?
No, what Tybee is asking is this: As women who have been with men with this issue, its easier to be kind if we understand what a man is experiencing. If I can understand what you are feeling its easier for me not to become frustrated. So what we want to know is what exactly is a man feeling or thinking when you say he is having sensory overload? I mean, is he thinking about himself physically, her, the other husband, his wife? I know personally I am just curious as to what exactly he is thinking. I'm analytical in nature and so it helps me to know what exactly is going on.
Shelly
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