[ShellyM]

Number one OP,
I COMMEND you for being honest and searching yourself to find out what is going on. Number two, do NOT feel bad at all. You are not the only man dealing with this issue. I absolutely agree with the 2nd post. You need to relax. The more you think about it the more you are going to stay nervous. I do know that some gentlemen go to their doctors and get assistance in forms such as Viagra and Cialis. I am not an R.N. or a Dr., all I can tell you about that is please do not buy it over the internet. You need to go through your Dr. because they are the ones that know your medical history and whether or not its a safe option for you. Jay asked his Dr. about V in December and was told no because he was having issues with his hypertension at that time. So please go through your Dr.
Now, you probably just need to relax........I KNOW, easy for me to say, right!!
I think one option that would do well for you is this: You get nervous at the thought of having sex with a new woman. You need to find a couple or a few couples that you see on a regular basis....this way you can relax around her and feel comfortable. And please remember that you have NOTHING to be ashamed about. Feel free to tell a lady that you are feeling nervous. Have FUN. Remember to have FUN!! You will do great. Sorry so long, Shelly