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Tybee Swing · 08-18-2007, 08:43 AM

I think that BradandJanet's advice was perfect.

I'd keep the focus off your fear, too. Don't tell other couples why you're a soft-swap couple other than just that you're new with couples and you want to start slow. That's all they need to know. Giving them TMI right away could make you feel more pressured with them.

08-18-2007, 08:43 AM	#3 (permalink)
Tybee Swing Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,845 Location: Georgia Status: single female	Re: performance anxiety? I think that BradandJanet's advice was perfect. I'd keep the focus off your fear, too. Don't tell other couples why you're a soft-swap couple other than just that you're new with couples and you want to start slow. That's all they need to know. Giving them TMI right away could make you feel more pressured with them.