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Originally Posted by bethncole This one shouldn't be on the list. Clubs are for experienced or advanced couples. Newbies are overwhelmed there and it can drive them away from the lifestyle all together. |
Fifth one to disagree. Moreover, I'd say this comment is prejudgamental and missleading newbies into believe clubs are places devoted for the weirdests of us to meet up and, given the chance, take advantage of their lack of experience. This was our fear before going to a club the first time, and it was really good to dare to go. Once there, our fear lasted the same a fart inside a basket
We even use clubs as a place where to meet couples we contacted on line, because it relieves everyone involved from the pressure. If the involved people doesn't click, they are able to move on, socialize and have fun with another atendants. And when people click, you're reasured about it preciselly because they already have there a lot of choices to pick instead.