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Originally Posted by bethncole This one shouldn't be on the list. Clubs are for experienced or advanced couples. Newbies are overwhelmed there and it can drive them away from the lifestyle all together |
I am going to be the third to chime in and disagree.
It wasn't until we started going to a swing club that we figured out the lifestyle. The personal ads were frustrating (still are). I think we'd have simply decided that swinging was an urban myth after a while and moved on.
The club is going to be overwhelming if you aren't particularly social. But if you're not social, you are going to struggle in swinging. If you know how to talk to people, aren't afraid of a little nudity near you and can enjoy a very adult atmosphere, the club is going to be fine.
Spoomonkey