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Originally Posted by bethncole This one shouldn't be on the list. Clubs are for experienced or advanced couples. Newbies are overwhelmed there and it can drive them away from the lifestyle all together |
So can meeting the 'wrong' couple as their first experience. I thought clubs were for 'advanced' swingers too and we avoided them for several years. It was a mistake.
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It depends on what you mean by "friends", but there is nothing wrong with building chemistry with another couple and/or learning more about them like amount of partners they've been with, safety rules, etc.
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So you have asked swingers how many partners they have had? I'm not sure if thats for safety or bragging

If you read the whole thread though, we touched on that in depth in a follow up post.