 Re: what would you do different?
Ours was using a Local Swingers Publication. What a bunch of, pardon the term, white trash losers. They were dirty and nasty. Not knowing anyone in the lifestyle and not knowing where to look. We gave up trying for a few months. We stumbled up a mailing list site called onelist that later became Egroups which became yahoogroups. Anyway we found one list in our area for swingers. We joined, and we were befriended by several couples who had similar problems finding compatible playmates.
Everyone makes mistakes in the lifestyle starting out, learn from them and move on.
Your best bet is to find a club near you and start attending and let things progress naturally.
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