The Swingers Board - View Single Post - need advice on situation re cheating?/swinging SO

yourbitterpill · 08-10-2007, 12:38 PM

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He's a slimeball masquerading as a "swinger".

True "swingers" put their primary relationship first (whether that be an LTR, marriage, partnership, etc.), above all else. I'm sure, in his mind, his cheating was somehow rationalized (it always is with cheaters) because you agreed it would be okay to have an open relationship. True "swingers" establish boundaries and ALWAYS make honesty and open communication essential to their primary relationship. He failed to do any of that.

As Dan Savage says.....DTMFA. You deserve better.

08-10-2007, 12:38 PM	#26 (permalink)
yourbitterpill Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 41 Location: Chicago, IL Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:yourbitterpill2004	Re: need advice on situation re cheating?/swinging SO Empowered- He's a slimeball masquerading as a "swinger". True "swingers" put their primary relationship first (whether that be an LTR, marriage, partnership, etc.), above all else. I'm sure, in his mind, his cheating was somehow rationalized (it always is with cheaters) because you agreed it would be okay to have an open relationship. True "swingers" establish boundaries and ALWAYS make honesty and open communication essential to their primary relationship. He failed to do any of that. As Dan Savage says.....DTMFA. You deserve better.