[EternallySingle]

Recreational sex is about recreation. If you have ED, you can't expect someone with no emotional investment in you to care why. All she knows is that she wants to go and you are still in park. Its harsh, but its true. You can't expect someone you are probably not going to have contact with three or four years from now to take the time to help a man with ED get through his condition. Its the same with any sexual dysfunction. If everyone knows ahead of time, considerations can be made. If you try to fool someone (or fool yourself) about an ED problem, you are lying to them, and that in itself can be a dark mark against you.

Talk, talk, talk, and talk. Thats what it all comes down to. Be honest with what you want, what you have, and what you will not put up with and everything will be a little bit easier. Not much, but a little.