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Old 08-09-2007, 10:47 PM   #25 (permalink)
funfun31
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Default Re: need advice on situation re cheating?/swinging SO

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Originally Posted by empowered
...though the guy is self-defined as a swinger, he's really not. ...He's a Player
Exactly! He's not a swinger. He's a player who uses swingers as a means to get laid. A very low lifeform, indeed. I'm glad you arrived to the conclusion that you did and didn;t choose to excuse his behavior or rationalize it, or somehow fin another way to enable him to keep deceiving everyone (including himself). When I see ppl on Swing Lifestyle with certs from ppl like this, or who (even worse) give certs to people like this, it just turns my stomach. I lose respect for all parties involved. Everyone knows how bad it feels to be lied to; to be cheated on. Why would anyone help someone do that to someone else? I'm sorry.... honesty and openness are sexy. Liars are not.
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