The Swingers Board - View Single Post - need advice on situation re cheating?/swinging SO

funfun31 · 08-09-2007, 10:20 PM

Well, let's see. He's lying to you. He's lying to others. He's doing this behind your back. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck....
This is why we don;t play with anyone who plays without their SO's knowledge. There is a clear line between cheating/adultery. We've had more than one woman who was in this situation try to swing with us and we explained to them the differecne between swinging and adultery, and that we don;t play with adulterers. The way I look at this is: if your own mate can't trust you, why should we? Swinging requires a certain amount of trust with the people you are playing with. If you are willing to willfully violate the trust that the person you married (or have some sort of commitment/agreement with), we (as basically strangers) sure as hell can't trust you.

08-09-2007, 10:20 PM	#24 (permalink)
funfun31 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Lancaster, PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:funfun31	Re: need advice on situation re cheating?/swinging SO Well, let's see. He's lying to you. He's lying to others. He's doing this behind your back. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck.... This is why we don;t play with anyone who plays without their SO's knowledge. There is a clear line between cheating/adultery. We've had more than one woman who was in this situation try to swing with us and we explained to them the differecne between swinging and adultery, and that we don;t play with adulterers. The way I look at this is: if your own mate can't trust you, why should we? Swinging requires a certain amount of trust with the people you are playing with. If you are willing to willfully violate the trust that the person you married (or have some sort of commitment/agreement with), we (as basically strangers) sure as hell can't trust you.