[ShellyM]

OP, I have alot of experience with men and ED. And yes, I absolutely agree with you. This is a legitamate medical condition and is NOT the man's fault in any way at all. But I'll be honest. Usually women get impatient or frustrated when it happens time after time. And I'm not just talking about myself, I have talked to lots of ladies and know this is true. I won't go into it other than to say that yes, it does become quite frustrating after awhile. But no, its NOT the man's fault at all. We do let them know though that if a man is unable to get hard we will switch partners after awhile. With me dick is a huge part of the sexual experience, and so if a man is unable to get or maintain an erection I'm going to switch after a while so that I can get what I need. Now, I'm NOT saying he is less of a man...thats like saying that a diabetic is less of a person. No, they just have a condition. But I do think that if a man has this condition he should tell the lady from JUMP. If I know about it its all good....finding out about it when I'm nekkid is different to me, I may be wrong though. But no, definately a man with ED is never seen as less of a man in my eyes.
Shelly