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Originally Posted by iapr There are men in the lifestyle that can not function at all in play situations and instead of moving on to something else to keep the ladies happy they just sit there and moan and bitch and feel sorry for themselves and make it uncomfortable for everyone.
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People that put that in their profiles are not necessarily meaning it to be insulting or to be implying that men with ED are lesser men they are just making a statement that they prefer men that are able to get it up and keep it up. |
Dito Everyone understands that there will be the occasional malfunction for any number of reasons, including just being tired, the late hour, a few drinks. It happens - no worries. But, there are some men in the lifestyle that have serious issues with ED - some are in denial of their problem, some lay the blame on their would-be partners, etc (unrealistic, and persisting in the lifestyle). Unsuspecting new partners have this laid on them at inopportune moments. If the unsuspecting couple had it to do over and knew how it would go before they got into the situation, they'd opt out...and that's why they decide to put a statement in their profiles to avoid those with the
serious ED issues.
It's not about being lesser of a man. It's not a personal judgement on you. It's just that when two couples head into a room together, they are there for the sex.