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If you are interested in full swap situations and a woman has some kind of gynecological issue to where you could have no meaningfull contact with her parts whatsoever would you think of her as a lesser woman? Probably not but would you pick her over all the rest to swing with, or given a variety of options would you pick someone that is fully operational?

I do not mean to be insensitive to your situation as all men are vulnerable to that happening but if you are interested in sex it makes sense that you would prefer someone that is actually capable of having sex. While I do agree that having the statements you mention in one's profile is a bit crass I do believe that people put statements like that in their profiles after having bad experiences.

There are men in the lifestyle that can not function at all in play situations and instead of moving on to something else to keep the ladies happy they just sit there and moan and bitch and feel sorry for themselves and make it uncomfortable for everyone. In those circumstances it does not matter if there is a connection or not and it becomes uncomfortable for everyone. Once you have had that happen a couple times you do become a bit leery of it. People that put that in their profiles are not necessarily meaning it to be insulting or to be implying that men with ED are lesser men they are just making a statement that they prefer men that are able to get it up and keep it up.


Everyone has preferences, some people want only HWP some want only BBW. Some want big cocks and some want small cocks, some want big boobs and some want small boobs. And some will want people that are able to get and maintain an erection.