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Semod · 08-09-2007, 03:08 PM

Why is it that men with ED are looked down upon as lesser men? It seems to me that it is either a mental or physical problem that cannot be helped and certainly not something a man chooses to have. Yet I see swinger ads with comments like "Only looking for men that can get it up and keep it up". I guess if you're into the lifestyle just to fuck, then I can understand. But reading many post here, even if you're just looking for a fuck, most people here are still looking for some type of connection and a total experience. So if the connection is there before play time, wouldn't a woman be understanding and still enjoy whatever the man has to offer as long as it's enjoyable? You'd never see an ad that would say "Only looking for women that don't need lube and can cum through intercourse".

OK, confession time here. I've had the problem. Usually it's when I'm feeling pressure to perform or there's something there that's not doing it for me. Like a poor kisser or a woman that's more into her and just wants me as her dildo. But if you're with me and we're having a good time, I don't care if you need to pull out your bottle of lube and apply it to yourself or me (actually, that's pretty much a turn on) or if you need something battery opperated to bring you to completion. As long as we're all having a good time.

Am I lesser of a man?

08-09-2007, 03:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
Semod Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 34 Location: Missouri Status: Couple	Why Put Down Men with ED? Why is it that men with ED are looked down upon as lesser men? It seems to me that it is either a mental or physical problem that cannot be helped and certainly not something a man chooses to have. Yet I see swinger ads with comments like "Only looking for men that can get it up and keep it up". I guess if you're into the lifestyle just to fuck, then I can understand. But reading many post here, even if you're just looking for a fuck, most people here are still looking for some type of connection and a total experience. So if the connection is there before play time, wouldn't a woman be understanding and still enjoy whatever the man has to offer as long as it's enjoyable? You'd never see an ad that would say "Only looking for women that don't need lube and can cum through intercourse". OK, confession time here. I've had the problem. Usually it's when I'm feeling pressure to perform or there's something there that's not doing it for me. Like a poor kisser or a woman that's more into her and just wants me as her dildo. But if you're with me and we're having a good time, I don't care if you need to pull out your bottle of lube and apply it to yourself or me (actually, that's pretty much a turn on) or if you need something battery opperated to bring you to completion. As long as we're all having a good time. Am I lesser of a man?