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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing We (my husband and I) don't touch cheaters with a 10-foot pole. Like you, we believe that lying and deceiving has NO place in the lifestyle. Cheating husbands aren't swingers, they're just lying swine. The more that swingers associate with them as swingers, the less tolerance or understanding we'll get from the vanilla world. If we preach "honesty, trust, openness is what we're all about", we ought to demonstrate that, including taking responsibility. Otherwise, we're no better than the cheaters are. If you lay down with pigs, you get dirty. |
This reminds me of when the local CBS affiliate did an "expose" on swinging and of course it starts with the words "Couples cheating in secret, and in the open, and joining a movement that seems to be gaining in momentum. We've heard that spouse swapping and adultery is common in certain suburban neighborhoods..."
Part of the story is that the reporter, posing as a married woman signed-up on a website "aimed at extra-marital affairs and so-called swingers" and "within six days 70 married men" contacted them. Don't ask me how they knew all of them were married since most married men on swingers sites don't come right out and say so.
They had two women on there, one saying she and her husband were victims of "recruiting" by swingers and the other saying her husband was cheating and married the woman down the street within a week of their divorce being final. She didn't outright say he was seeing swingers, but the reporter eluded to it.
The whole gist of it was that swingers are recruiting your married husbands, so ladies, hold on tight to them. That is the slant that the public wants to hear and thus is being told to them. And the more some swingers entertain cheating men and women the more of self-inflicted black eye we give ourselves. Playing with married men and women is just feeding the non-swinger world exactly what they want.
Mr. WS