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Originally Posted by n2ez How about activities with cheating Women???
how do you justify that over "Cheating men" ??
it is funny to see how some couples will (not all) be more then willing to let a cheating woman join their tryst, but on the other hand they will let you know they will have nothing to do with cheating man! in fact have read some profiles stating "we will contact your wife!!" yikes!
whats up with that? |
While I wouldn't be one to have such a double standard, I would think that you are probably right - this double standard does exist. "Single" women come to our club and are quite open about the fact that they are cheating.
On the other hand, I am only aware of one man who comes to our club who is openly cheating (he gets less attention than the men's room).
Is it right? No.
Is a double standard "fair"? Probably not.
So why are cheating wives more accepted than cheating males? Once again, it comes down to supply and demand. There are half a dozen single guys in the club at any given time - and that is on a low night. We have one regular single woman who is simply not very attractive and comes to the club to drink herself silly and complain about the fact that she can't get laid.
You walk a unicorn through the place, and people seem to lose their minds. Single or cheating, people don't really care... Because they are rare. And people will bend the rules for them.
But as a guy, the cheater in the club is in competition with a number of men, most legitimately single. Couples looking for single men have the luxury to be picky and to stick to their rules.
Frankly, I don't like cheaters coming to swing clubs. I have my issues with it which I have noted before, so I won't get into it. Male or female, I don't care. We aren't going to play with cheaters. So no double standard here... But I certainly understand why one might exist.
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