[blondie77]

Thanks for all the great responses. By reading all these answers and other posts and having hubby look over them too, really makes us learn a lot and we see things from another perspective. There are things here that I would never have thought about. I do feel a bit better about it. The other woman and I have chatted a few times via email, but she never answered any of my queries as to that night, so I'm gonna just chalk it up to "their" problem and leave it at that. I'm still not really sure what went wrong, but I have learned that even though a couple seems all for it and ready to go, that perhaps we just shouldn't jump right into bed until getting to know them better.