 Re: need advice
Eric, welcome.
I don't have any advise for you other than it sounds very much like a communication issue with perhaps some self-image sprinkles on top. I like the idea of the bedside diary, it's a good communication tool - some folks have an easier time writing their thoughts when they can take their time and carefully phrase them. We all know how easy it is to say the wrong thing and regret it before the echo dies. Handwritten notes have a way of saying things our mouthes cant. We did something similar - we used dry-erase markers on the bathroom mirror to leave sexy romantic thoughts to each other. It's WAY COOL!!! There's no permanent record so it's easier to be "in the moment" and know that your words won't come back to bite ya later.
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