eric, mrs.fun and i talked about your post last night and we had to think back.. it felt like waaaayyy back for us.
but ya know we cant say that we knew everything about each other sexualy then at your age.as for me i love a little mystery in a woman
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we cant hardly speak for kara we dont know (her) and you are the one that posted so we are going to stay with how you feel.. im a guy so ill keep this to guy talk
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mrs.fun read your post and her feelings were "maby kara is just shy" i can vouch that mrs.fun has no alcahol problems but she has always been able to have just a few drinks and have fun, open up a little... she just has a shy personality.
this is where it takes communication on your part. you need to sit down and tell her that some of these things are important to you without making her feel pressured.
dont ever try to analize your wife thats just wrong. were guys and we probably would miss that anyhow. the thing is,take time listen to her... pay close attention and in time you will understand how she feels. and hopefully she will give you more of her mind... then you will see that fire in her eyes.
about the text message. well mrs fun isnt all that hot about texts or chats she likes things more in a personal level. maby try spending some time shopping for a card that says something she would love to hear from you not just a quickie... im sorry or im horny what are you wearing... but rather something more sensual sometimes it means more that you took the time to say .... im thinking about you ,i care.
how about some flowers with a personal card that says, i cant wait to see what your wearing, im hopeing wet panties.
hang in there eric, life together is all about learning as ya go.. we hope to hear some from kara.