We had a similar experience once. We got to know a couple; the guy was an old proclaimed hippie who, back in the day, had a lot of experiences (kinda how VegasLee describes the glorious past
) -- his wife was bi but as a couple, they had never played before. He talked like she was a precious little flower that needed to be handled very delicately ...
... yeah, right -- boyfriend was WRONG. She and I hit it off; they invited us back to their place and she had NO problem making the first move on me and Mr. Fun. The husband, I think, was in shock -- we were all having fun, and when he saw his wife with Mr. Fun having a good time, suddenly the play stopped ... they went to another room and he came back and said, "hey guys ... I don't know how to say this, but I think it's best if you all get dressed. She's kinda freaking out."
She was a freak, all right
, but I wouldn't say she was freaking out. I'd say HE was freaking out. We didn't leave right away and we all talked, but it was just very very strange. In the next few days after that we got an email saying that they didn't think that swinging was good for her (roll eyes) and they also didn't think we could have a friendship either.
We still wonder sometimes WTF, but we chalk it up to experience. Interestingly, their profile stays pretty active and I do see him online a lot, but I have no problem respecting people's wishes. My guess is that he just couldn't handle seeing his wife pleasured by another man.