[blondie77]

socolais mentioned that newbies trying to swing with newbies is more than likely going to result in exactly what happened. Well, perhaps I am a newbie to most of you, and in regards to foursomes, yeah I guess I am. But we do have quite a bit of experience in this lifestyle. We've been pretty active since we started, and while that doesn't mean much, we have learned a lot as a couple, and this certainly isn't our first experience ever.

I guess I don't really know what I wanted from asking my original question...but mainly I was just so suprised because all the signs were their in the past, they were so enthusiastic, even the other husband, though he didn't say as much, he certainly was having a good time. I guess I've just never experienced anything like it and because I'm so straight forward, I can't imagine why anyone else would want to avoid talking it out. Thanks for all your help. Anyone else ever been in a similar situation?