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Originally Posted by fun4Ds am i seeing this wrong?.. he never said anything about a drinking problem. i personally dont drink and swing but mrs.fun likes to have a (few) to losen up a little and so do alot of other women/men at the clubs we attend. |
I often have a drink or two when we're at the clubs, too. But, I can swing just as well (and probably better) completely sober. I don't
need the alcohol to be comfortable sexually with my husband, or with the people we choose to swing with.
If I
needed to be drinking in order to even have a sexy conversation with my own husband, or needed it in order to enjoy any sort of sexual activity, and couldn't deal with sexy talk or sex without alcohol, I would say that I have a BIG problem, and that problem involves relying on alcohol to deal with things that I'm not facing.