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**fun4Ds** · 07-27-2007, 05:37 AM

i had to post back again after giving this some more thought and talking with mrs.fun about this.

we all gave our two cents, personally iv never posted with out mrs.fun either viewing or following a thread. and some advice was to have eric let kara see his post.

now im gonna see this as if were me having a conversation with mrs.fun when she gets home from work, goes like this

honey, im not happy... as you know we have been to some clubs and you have gone along so far, but you are not talking to me the way i want, you havent opend up about your feelings at the table without a couple drinks... iv posted our problem on the swingersboard for all the swingers to see... and we feel you have a drinking problem, we are gonna get to the bottom of your problems from your tormented childhood. and from now on you wont be allowed to have a couple drinks at the club untill you start giving me some erotic text messages.... ill show ya the swingersboard site and you will see your problems...

am i seeing this wrong?.. he never said anything about a drinking problem. i personally dont drink and swing but mrs.fun likes to have a (few) to losen up a little and so do alot of other women/men at the clubs we attend.

yes im the subject bringer upper at the table most of the time and mrs.fun is alot more reserved about things.. made me a better listener.

as far as counseling, i didnt see any sighns of frustration, anger, sleepless nights,or effects at work... unless it would be the text message.

i know mrs.fun has alot of asshole clients to deal with or even the boss at times, i might not get any responce from a message from her if its just a bad day. we dont even have alot of time to call each other at work for important things.

maby im seeing this wrong but i couldnt help posting again thinking, my god what if she does see this thread . and its about her.

eric, i hope you can see how i feel without takin it the wrong way. this isnt about attacking you in any way or anyone els on the board. we hope you can actually let kara see this thread and listen to her views on this.

07-27-2007, 05:37 AM	#8 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,488 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: need advice i had to post back again after giving this some more thought and talking with mrs.fun about this. we all gave our two cents, personally iv never posted with out mrs.fun either viewing or following a thread. and some advice was to have eric let kara see his post. now im gonna see this as if were me having a conversation with mrs.fun when she gets home from work, goes like this honey, im not happy... as you know we have been to some clubs and you have gone along so far, but you are not talking to me the way i want, you havent opend up about your feelings at the table without a couple drinks... iv posted our problem on the swingersboard for all the swingers to see... and we feel you have a drinking problem, we are gonna get to the bottom of your problems from your tormented childhood. and from now on you wont be allowed to have a couple drinks at the club untill you start giving me some erotic text messages.... ill show ya the swingersboard site and you will see your problems... am i seeing this wrong?.. he never said anything about a drinking problem. i personally dont drink and swing but mrs.fun likes to have a (few) to losen up a little and so do alot of other women/men at the clubs we attend. yes im the subject bringer upper at the table most of the time and mrs.fun is alot more reserved about things.. made me a better listener. as far as counseling, i didnt see any sighns of frustration, anger, sleepless nights,or effects at work... unless it would be the text message. i know mrs.fun has alot of asshole clients to deal with or even the boss at times, i might not get any responce from a message from her if its just a bad day. we dont even have alot of time to call each other at work for important things. maby im seeing this wrong but i couldnt help posting again thinking, my god what if she does see this thread . and its about her. eric, i hope you can see how i feel without takin it the wrong way. this isnt about attacking you in any way or anyone els on the board. we hope you can actually let kara see this thread and listen to her views on this.